Comparison isn’t always bad 😱

Comparison is supposedly the thief of joy right!?

Like, when we sit and scroll our social media and start to compare ourselves to other women (that honestly are only showing their highlight reel anyway) but this can create jealousy and envy and ultimately leave you feeling inferior or less than…

What if I told you comparison doesn’t have to be this way?

What? How? 🤔🧐

When I learned that I could use jealousy and envy to my advantage everything started to change for me… I’m guessing you still want to know how..

😉 So a few years ago I would look at my Instagram feed and see all these women doing things and being places I wanted to be, especially when they lived by the ocean 🌊 and could walk the beach every day of their life! This has been a dream of mine since I was a child. Like how come they can have what they want, how come they are living their #bestlife and I was stuck, land locked in the middle of the country??

Okay, are you ready for the magic 🪄 of jealousy and envy? When we have these FEELINGS, they are telling you something, they are asking you to listen inside yourself.

Is your soul asking you to change what you are doing? Is your soul desperately asking you to listen to YOUR heart and take steps towards your dreams?

These women on Instagram were just showing me that it is possible, that what I want that they have is something attainable and if they can do it so can I!

Now it takes a few times to start to look at these things in this light but once you master seeing how these people are just “Expanding” you (as Lacy Phillips would say) you can stop feeling bad about yourself and start asking -how did they get there? What steps did they take, what aligned action steps do I need to take to put myself in that position too?

To complete my story...

My best friend moved across the country to the beach and showed me exactly how to do it...So instead of being jealous she got to do it, I learned how it was possible for me too! We now both live in our dream homes about 15 mins from the ocean and honestly just a few years ago I would have never thought it was possible for me!

So, are you even a little bit excited to feel envy now when you end up in comparison? These things might just be messages leading you closer to what you want! 🎉

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